Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Regret Or Courage...

This blog is probably be for my long-time friend. Someone who has been really close to me. And I would definitely say what I have done has caused him hurt and pain. Nothing I would or can do is capable of regression. Time can't be turn back and all has to move on. But that doesn't mean I don't care anymore. Remember, you who is reading this, has taken a big space in my heart and I will never forgive myself if you fail to enjoy life better than you ever have.

My regrets are mine. You don't need to remind me again. Whatever I have done to cause regret, I did it myself. I may have been pushed by others and circumstances have prodded me hard. Yet, when all is said and done, I am the one who acted or did not act and that is my reality. Often we kept our lives imbalance by trying to blame others for our actions and decisions. There are as many forms of "He/she/they made me do it" as there are stars in the sky. Unfortunately, we fail to realize in the "others made me do it" stance is that in this process we give our powers away by the truckload and then bemoan that we feel put upon.

It takes courage to own our behaviours and take responsibility for out actions. It takes courage to stand up and say that we made the decsion and regret it. Therefore, we have to make do and put our best foot forward to face it. It takes courage to admit to our personal regrets, owned them as fully as we can and salvage and do rectifications accordingly. Yet when we do, the magickal door of inner personal freedom and power is suddenly before us.

I am, but human too. I do possessed regrets that almost collaspe me, a classic example to all. I went through the "hard time". I managed to "climb" out of it. So, can you. Be brave.


DaRkAnGeL'S WoRdS oF WiSdOm :

"Defer not till tomorrow to be wise. Tomorrow's sun to thee may never rise. Be brave! Wait not any act that deems fit, but put our best shot forward even if that's for longer just that bit"


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