Thursday, October 21, 2010

ChAnGeS....

There's the problem! Unfortunately, some of us may not live long enough to learn this lesson! It's so easy to see what is wrong "out there" and expand all our energies trying to change people, places and things (and keeping terribly busy doing it!), never taking the time to see how we need to change ourselves to make our lives and the lives of those around us better.

After we have expended our energies on the impossible, we have the oppportunity in the quiet of exhaustion to see what is possible. Often what is possible in even the worst of circumstances is changing & shifting our attitude & perspective. When we do that, doors begin to open that were not even visible to us before.

Just with a quote of example, after hearing from many, I was often presented with lots of scenarios. While friends of mine are struggling through relationship problems, I am glad that I was spared of the excruciating cruelty. Think again on that, I may not have practise what I preached. For me, I will never be able to accept stagnation as far as relationship is concerned. So, it is one to hope & aspire for the ideal relationship. But what's ideal now is not going to stay ideal forever. We have to face it when reality bites. Cruel it may seemed, but that's life. Rectify now or get to regret it later. It's a do it or lose it. Talk it out now or forever hold your peace. There's no staying within the shadow. Take charge of your life and you will end up with new new possibilities.

We humans are so dear. We often take forever to see the obvious and we often get quite bloody in the process. Nonetheless, I am, too classified as one stubborn individual (as according to those around me). So good luck to all.


DaRkAnGeL's WoRdS oF WiSdOm :

"There is a guidance for each of us and by lowly listening we shall hear the right word... Place yourself in the middle of the stream of power which flows into your life. Then without effort, you are impelled to the truth and to perfect contentment."

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