My mom is a natural healer to people & I love her to bits. (FYI, she doesn't read my blogs) She always try to teach me that we can never completely understand another person, even between lovers, though we can accept that they have their reasons. She didn't interpret. She didn't analyse or figue out. She "understood" with her heart.
Over the year, I have come to see how destructive it is to interpret another person. The arrogance, judgementalism & harshness of interpretation go a long way towards destroying relationships. I, am one exemplary role to attest to that. Even when our interpretations make sense & are based on "facts", they may have absolutely nothing to do with genuine reality.
When we analyse or try to figure out other people, we have made them an object to observe. We have left behind our oneness, our connectedness with them, our family, loved ones & friends; we have elevated ourselves above them & become uncaring. When we understand with our heart, we see that others have "reasons" we aren't privy to that lie behind their behaviours. We can care for them as people like ourselves - people who are struggling to learn from life.
I was often seen by many as arrogant & isolating. But I am just being confident. It's a harsh world & dwells harsher people. My guards are definitely up. But then, still, we have to tread with care. Love still rules, I guess. I am trying to change for the better. Hope I can still be given the opportunity to transform. And you should too.
DaRkAnGeL'S WoRdS oF WisDoM :
"Today's success comes with many disappointments & failures. Never denounce nor fear the past which has served up a great deal of learning & wisdom."
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