Relationships ... Is There Ever A Perfection?

It was a really long break for me. Away from Singapore for more than a year. Wasn't the 1st time I went back for a long period. But this has to be considered as the most 'daunting'. Similarly, I faced all sorts of relationship dilemmas. Believe me, the tear created wasn't easy to bear either. But life is often unpredictable, often thrown into turmoil of choices & priorities. When met with such, what can one do.

Happened to get a call from a friend yesterday. She was upset with the relationships hurdles that kept surfacing in her life. Not that I am an expert in this area. I just told her to give it a good cry & let nature takes its course. If you can't salvage it, then there is nothing much you can do. But if you can't live without it, then turn to other distractions. Has to say that many of us confused relationships with magic. We wished for relationships that are fantastic, intimate, loving, open, gentle & supportive. Our 1st priority is actually the ability to find the right person and magically enter into the perfect relationship, then have it continue flawlessly, so that we can get on with the other more important things in our life. We hope that we can fix up our relationships once & for all & have them stay that way forever. But that is totally wrong. No one, as far as I know, will stay where they are. Maybe there is. But I have yet to really see. ( & I know you are gonna make a comment. Whoever you are, my dear friend.)

I know many of you can't post your comments here. But it's fine to email me instead. Unless you insist or up to my discretion, I will post it out for you if there's any ' intrinsic' value to it. Anyway thanks for all you guys support. You all know who you are. So, not mentioning names.


DaRkAnGeL's WoRdS oF WiSdOm :

"Listening to your heart is not simple. Finding out who you are is even more complex. It takes a lot of hard work & courage to get to know who you are & what you want. Take heed. Always be a first rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else."

"It's only when we truly know & understand that we have a limited time on earth - & that we have no way of knowing when our time is up - that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had. Identify your happiness & that's what really matter because you live life but once. Whatever or whoever comes, may not pass this way again. There may not be any second chances."