Very few, if any, of us do not carry around wounds and experiences of the past. Be it a loss of a love one or a relationship The wounds and experiences may have caused great pain and misery. But all will healed in time and we will be wiser and stronger as all these are the learning opportunities of our lives. Frequently, we want to romanticize wounds, indulging in the belief that some wounds cannot be healed. This is just not true. All wounds, no matter how painful, how much you felt betrayed, can be healed. We have only to be willing to go through the deep process of healing, no matter what had happened, no matter what is required.
The lovely thing about our inner being is that we have to reach a certain level of maturity, strength and awareness before it will bring up these old wounds, experiences and memories. The very fact that they are coming up is an indicator of how far we have come. Maybe it still hurts alot. But you will experience better peace and will eventually manage to arrest the absence due to the loss.
Only one caution – never, never try to force (or let someone else force) your old pain to come up. Deal with it as it comes up. In the process of life and make sure you have a safe, supportive, non-interfering environment in which to go through it. We all are sentimental, emotional beings. To live with wounds, pain and emotional experiences is part and parcel of life. The strength we acquired will carry on with us for a long way throughout our journey.
DaRkAnGeL's WoRdS oF WiSdOm :
"No way anyone's life is perfect throughout. Everyone has a turn in making mistakes. Everyone is a learner. And I am learning everyday. Life wouldn't be any fun if it didn't have it's ups and downs. Success covers a multitude of blunders..."
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