The week flew past before my eyes. I was busy alright. But did managed to find the time to get my hair done with a gal friend. She relates the story about her mysterious sweetheart who simply refused to meet her despite months of chatting up on the phone. Strange it may sound but the stranger it becomes when she remains adament on the "relationship" they had established. She has this inert feel that she needs him there for her & vice versa.
Somehow, if we are to live happy, creative & fulfilled lives, it is crucial to distinguish between our wants & our needs. Unfortunately, many blur the distinction and then wondered why they feel so diminished. Make peace with the knowledge that you can't have everything you want. Why? Because it's more important for us to get everything we need. Like infants, we feel contentment when our essential needs are met.
Be courageous. Ask yourself: what is it I truly need to make me happy? The deeply personal answers to this vital question will be different for each of us. Trust the loving wisdom of your heart. It is only after we acknowledge our inner needs that we can harness the creative energy necessary to manifest them in our lives. It is inevitable when one has a great need of something, one finds it.
Wanting to leave some thoughts for a young friend who is now in Switzerland pursuing his studies. Work hard and enjoy the pure freedom for now. You deserve it. Stay on the right path and do keep your mind & focus clear. We all miss you back here in Singapore. Cheers!
DaRkAnGeL'S WoRdS oF WiSdOm :
"I've learned that the great challenge of life is to decide what's important and to disregard everything else."
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